How can a guest's home in Xinjiang
- Zhong-Lin --
Xinjiang person known for hospitality, hospitality, guest have a set of rules. To the Xinjiang's home a guest, we must respect people's customs and understanding of Xinjiang, Xinjiang, were taboo.
To minorities at home, do not take them taboo things. For example, entering the Kazakh or Mongolian home, do not bring whip; into the Manchu comrades at home, do not wear hats or wear dogskin dogskin done coats; to the faith of Islam's national home, and not to bring non-halal food, especially pork.
Your attire should be neat and clean: Summer guest, do not wear shorts and vest, barefoot or wear slippers, hair type and face modification should look, not disheveled lesbian, gay beard to Guagan Jing, this is not only its own civilization the performance, but also respect for others.
In pastoral areas, if the ride to the Kazakh, Mongolian, Kirgiz, Tajik and other ethnic groups yurt to go, do not dismount at the door, more taboo riding a horse to the door dismount. Because they are only allowed to submit the report of the funeral or other bad news when you can do so, usually should be in the yurt behind the dismount. Mongolia is also taboo to be whip in hand into the yurt. Guests should whip hanging in the saddle, or to whip up and hidden. As the general care of livestock herders, therefore, to the pastoral guest, do not just go kicking livestock, do not broke into the sheep riding, and do not face in front of the owner to go after the dogs and watchdogs. Minority people in pastoral areas is also taboo to others, praise their children and livestock, they think that face to face praised the children and livestock would not cause any Kat.
When you come to host family or a yurt door, older people must let the advanced gate. Who I should be sitting in the middle to older or chief, the general not to her own seat, in particular, not to sit next to people in bed, preferably follow the master arrangement. In the Kazak yurts, where guests can sit in a chair or on a blanket spread on the ground and sat on the carpet when sitting cross-legged or kneeling, must not legs straight.
Xinjiang people are very warm and hospitable to the guests that they are very happy, and generally all kinds of food or meals to entertain guests, but guests should also pay attention to civilization. Meals, do not gobble; do not use the nose to the smell of food; and do not rub their hands touch food; eat Nang or steamed bread, etc., be sure to take them Baicheng small to eat, to guard against the entire bite; meat bite, Do not pick full plate chaotic election chaos. After the meal, tableware best not left in the food, do not handle food came alive again on the back, they should not be a bowl of something for someone else to eat, not to throw food on the ground floor. Dinner before supper, the host often invites friends to relieve myself. After washing hands can be used towel, swinging with both hands to avoid rejection of water over the hands down.
Speech and behavior should be gentle, courteous, not making indiscreet criticisms Datailielie lead to unnecessary misunderstanding. Whether to eat or talk, can not spit, yawn, in particular, can not fart, otherwise, would be seen as disrespect for the master.
Master in order to hospitality guests, the guests tend to give King some food, the guests had better not refuse, if you do not like to eat, or not used to, you can try and express our gratitude. If there are special circumstances, you can explain to the owner. If the owner with enthusiasm to give you fed to some candy, insisting that tell you to eat, but you have diabetes, then you can explain to the owner, the owner will be sensible, but will change some of the foods you eat for your hospitality.
In addition to the guests respect the customs of food outside Xinjiang people have a toast customs. This is the host to the guests a way to express friendship, but also respect for the guests. But some visitors see the owner of a toast, he said nothing then, so very rude. Toast master, regardless of the circumstances, we should, first glass Then, thanks to the owner, drink, and can drink that you can not seem to have a drink to the owner to explain the situation, put the glass back to the owner. In addition can also be transferred to other gay wine on behalf of "help", the owner shared the view that you accept his hospitality. If "Taiwan independence forces" there is no war, "reinforcements" for backing, while he did not competent, you can explain to the owner, the owner is generally understood it.
Xinjiang, in weddings and funerals, or experienced joy and celebration, to be inviting guests. Met the guests, usually to prepare for some gifts, because different peoples have different customs of different, with the gifts can not be the same. For example, the Uygur, Kazak, Hui, Kirgiz and other Muslims in the guest nation at home, generally with a box of sugar, rock sugar, tea (brick tea), fruit sugar, halal snacks and fruit biscuits or something like that. If you experience "is Zier" (Festival do), you can box with a small amount of sugar, brick tea and so on. If they are "popping up in accordance with" (joyous event), then the cloth and silk flowers and so on. Send gifts are generally given by a lesbian mistress, man of the house do not accept gifts. So, when you want to send gifts, it is best to bring lesbian, this "task" to complete the best by lesbians. If the Mongolian house guest, in addition to bring some cookies, candy and the like, the best to bring 12 bottles of wine. Wine by the Mongols considered to be respect for the elderly and the best gifts friends gifts, so if you are older than the Mongolian friend's house guest, it is best to bring 12 bottles of wine, then the owner must have been happy about it.
If, pastoral work or a guest for the first time into the Kazakh yurt, they should also bring some gifts, generally with some tea and sweets, tea can be handed over to the hostess, fruit and sugar can be directly given to their children.
Chinese have a saying: "a thousand miles to send goose feather, courtesy light weight brotherhood." Therefore, we do not have to send a gift quantity, but according to their own economic situation, presented in a number of gifts to express their mind.
Time for a guest house belonging to national minorities, apart from outside of the agreed time, usually the afternoon or evening to go to be good. Especially in the Uygur, Kazak, Hui, Uzbek and other ethnic Muslims over Ramadan and Eid al-Adha, it is best not to go the first day of the festival, since the first day of Ramadan they are early in the morning to go to mourn their own mosques and Shangfen relatives, Eid al-Adha is also going to the mosque early in the morning and come back after zaiyang stew. If the festival's first day of the Qubai Festival, one not easy to come across the owner, and second, the owner has not completely make holiday preparations.
Prayer Festival, when the door to say: "I wish you a happy holiday!" "Good holiday!" According to custom, the owner is just pouring bowl, drink this tea bowl in general, see the festive snacks and other foods to be praised master's craft, after the owner invited to taste a little bit and can not eat, and said "hot Ahmat" (Thank you). Time should not sit too long, because visitors more than the owner is busy, so sit about ten minutes each is appropriate. When we go out to the master said, "Good West" (Goodbye).
In some cases, the Muslim masses, after dinner, it is necessary to do Thanksgiving with both hands touching face of "Du wow" ceremony, this time, if you are with them, they should seriously silently imitate them complete this simple action.
If guests stay overnight at the host family, the master will send the best home bedding, guests should not refuse to use.
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Author: mark2002002
